50 Questions For Couples To Reconnect On Valentines Day

Are you in need of reconnecting with your partner? Maybe you’ve lost that spark or maybe you looking for inspiration for something to talk about. Well, you are exactly where you need to be – here, reading this blog post. These 50 questions are new conversation starters and intimate questions to help reconnect as a couple. With Valentine’s Day around the corner, this is also a great Valentine’s Day idea and topic to do with your partner over a romantic breakfast in-bed or breakfast date.

These questions are for couples who

• Need help to connect on a deeper level
• Haven’t had a meaningful conversation in a minute
• Need help deepening a connection
• Need help building trust and compassion
• Rediscovering their partner and wanting to know them more
• Feeling distant and needing something to bring them closer
• Want something to chat about because you love chatting to each other
• Seeking romantic ideas to do together on Valentine’s Day

Things to consider before asking these questions

The following questions are between you and your partner. Try not to ask them when your kids are around. Kids can be a distraction and can take your attention. This is a time when you need 100% of your partner’s attention so that they can listen. Choose a time when you know kids won’t be around.

These questions aren’t a checklist; you don’t need to go through all of them at once. Choose the ones that resonate with you the most, then take it from there.

Listen, ask follow-up questions, and let your partner speak.

Have a no-screen zone when asking questions. This means no phones, no laptops, no TV, no smart watches etc. Switch them off or even put them in the cupboard or other room.

Be present.

50 questions for couples to reconnect

1. Can you remember the first time we met? Tell me about it
2. What’s the happiest memory of us?
3. Describe a moment where you said wow, I’m proud to have you as a partner?
4. What’s something that I do that makes you happy?
5. What’s something that I do that makes you sad?
6. What is the biggest challenge in our relationship now, and what do you think it is teaching us?
7. What do you love about me?
8. What do you hate about me?
9. Is there anything that you regret in life?
10. What are your dreams and goals in life?
11. Are you happy?
12. What is something that I can do more of?
13. What’s something that I can do less of?
14. What’s a moment with us where you can go back and relive over again and why?
15. What makes you feel confident?
16. What am I doing right that I should do more of because it’s working?
17. If we need to, would you be open to doing couples therapy?
18. Is this relationship going in the direction you need it to go? If not, what can we do for it to go in that direction
19. What have you been dealing with lately?
20. What three traits of mine made you fall in love with me?
21. What is your most treasured possession?
22. What’s something that happened to you that changed the trajectory of your life?
23. How have you changed in the last year? How have I changed?
24. What’s your love language?
25. Where in the world do you want to travel to?
26. What’s a date night idea wish for us to do next?
27. What’s your best relationship advice for a happy relationship?
28. What are you grateful for?
29. What’s your favourite song at the moment?
30. What’s your favourite movie?
31. What’s your favourite book?
32. What meal do I cook that you love?
33. What is your favourite part of your day and why?
34. When have you seen me the most vulnerable, and what did it teach you about loving me?
35. What are you hesitant to ask me and why?
36. What is one experience you can’t wait for us to share and why?
37. Tell me a fond moment from your childhood
38. What do you feel is the next step in our relationship?
39. Tell me about the moment you knew you were in love with me.
40. Is there a moment in our relationship that you want to apologise for, if you haven’t done so already?
41. How do you think we complement each other?
42. What is something that you think is your strength, but is my weakness and vice versa?
43. When was the last time you considered ending this relationship and why didn’t you?
44. Are there any scars in you that you haven’t healed yet?
45. What do I do that makes you feel like I understand you?
46. When do you feel closest to me?
47. What’s the best thing you’ve learned from our worst fight?
48. What pain still lingers from our past and what needs to happen for it to heal?
49. What do you think is the one thing I want you to understand about me?
50. If this was our last conversation, what would you not want me to forget?

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If you were looking for something to help you reconnect with your partner, then you have found these questions that can help. These 50 questions are beautiful, intimate and deep. They help you rediscover your partner more and share a spark and compassion that was probably slipping away. So sit comfortably, be present and listen.

It doesn’t have to stop there. If this blog post has inspired you, please share it with others, and further read our other articles with related topics

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